Finding Support Through Grief and Infertility: My Journey with Filling Empty Wombs (FEW)
Last year, as I navigated my own grief and dealt with the emotional and physical challenges of multiple doctors’ appointments, I found a much-needed source of support: the infertility support group called Filling Empty Wombs (FEW). This group has truly been a lifeline for me, offering a safe, understanding space to process everything I was going through.
Filling Empty Wombs (FEW) is a free, virtual support group led by the compassionate and knowledgeable Sandra Elidor. The group meets biweekly, and it’s a place where women who are experiencing infertility, whether due to IVF, miscarriage, or unexplained fertility issues, can come together and support one another.
What I’ve found in this group is a community that really understands the emotional weight of infertility. The women I’ve met have been through similar struggles, and it’s been incredibly healing to connect with others who get it. Whether you’re at the start of your fertility journey or further along, whether you’ve suffered a miscarriage or are simply trying to make sense of the emotional rollercoaster of PCOS, FEW provides a non-judgmental and supportive environment.
Joining this group was a turning point for me. It helped me not only feel less isolated, but also gain valuable insight from others who are on a similar path. Infertility can be such a lonely experience, but through F.E.W., I realized I wasn’t alone. I could lean on this group for encouragement, advice, and emotional support — and I’m so grateful for that.
If you’re currently navigating infertility, grief, or trying to find your way through this difficult journey, I highly recommend looking into Filling Empty Wombs. It’s been a place of hope for me, and I truly believe it could help you too.
You deserve support, and you don’t have to face this alone.
In 2017, I was officially diagnosed with Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS), and when I look back, it’s almost as if a lightbulb went off in my mind. Suddenly, so many of the physical and emotional symptoms I had been experiencing made sense. The fatigue, the irregular cycles, the acne, the mood swings – they all had an explanation.
I remember the emotional weight that came with the diagnosis, not because I didn’t understand the medical aspect of it, but because of how it impacted my life, my self-image, and even my relationships. PCOS is more than just a physical condition; it has an emotional and psychological impact that can make you feel like you’re alone in the journey.
But I want to reassure you – whether you’re a wife, a partner, or someone experiencing this diagnosis on your own, you are not alone. The emotional rollercoaster of PCOS is valid, and it’s important to know that others are walking this path alongside you.
If you’re reading this, perhaps you’ve felt the same confusion, frustration, or even isolation I once did. PCOS is a complex condition, and navigating its ups and downs can sometimes feel like an endless cycle. But there is hope.
Whether it’s through diet changes, medical treatment, emotional support from a partner, or leaning into communities of people who get it, you can make meaningful progress in understanding your body and how to manage PCOS.
I know it’s not easy, but I hope my story serves as a reminder that you’re not alone in this journey. I encourage you to talk openly with your husband and loved ones, and if you’re struggling emotionally, don’t hesitate to seek out support – whether it’s therapy, support groups, or just honest conversations with those who care.
PCOS doesn’t define you, and while the path may have its challenges, there’s a lot of support and understanding waiting for you. You’re not just surviving this — you can thrive with the right tools and support.
Take care of yourself, and remember, you’re not alone in this.

